Heeee, this argument is back again is it? Ohdear. Standing in slash fandom yelling that we're all obsessed with men is like standing in the public bogs yelling we're all obsessed with shit. Hello there sample bias.

I think often it's people who don't think it through to realise that fandom exists all over the place, and that people exist outside of fandom. There is at least one cow in Scotland, one side of which appears to be brown.