I wholeheartedly endorse the whole 'loads of women use the wrong bra size' thing, and would also like to state for the record that my mother and I were pretty close growing up, and she tends to subscribe fairly closely to what society expects of women, and yet I still can rarely be bothered to strip the hair off my legs either. And the older I get, the more comfortable I get about ignoring that particular 'joy' of femininity and just wander about with my hairy legs on display.